WELCOME TO THE SOCIAL EXPAT
EXPAT & LANGUAGE COACHING for WOMEN FEELING STUCK after 6+ MONTHS ABROAD
You’ve tried to blend in, maybe even fake it till you make it, but you still feel like a stranger in your own skin, navigating life in a new country with a deep, unsettling sense that something is missing.
Hi, I'm Nina, a mom, expat partner, and certified English teacher who’s moved 4 times across 3 countries and 3 languages over the past 7 years. I’m also a certified NLP practitioner and expat coach, helping women like you come home to themselves—even if that home is halfway across the world.
THE SOCIAL EXPAT
THE STORY
EXPECTATION vs REALITY
When you leave your home country, you leave behind a huge part of your identity. Although no one is telling you that while you're packing your bags. The journey to feeling at home in a new country is about rediscovering who you are when everything around you has changed. It’s exhausting. You arrive all excited, suitcase in hand, heart racing with excitement. You’re ready to explore new cultures, make friends, and have the time of your life.
And then, reality hits! You’re staring at the wall in your new apartment, feeling like a stranger in your own skin. (I should know—Shard’s peak in London was my only bright spot for a whole year!). The pain you feel? The pain I felt? It’s not “just” homesickness. It's a gut-wrenching feeling of losing who you used to be while trying to figure out who you’re supposed to become. You might’ve even followed the well-intentioned but misguided advice of, “Just go out and find friends,” but it left you feeling even more confused and lost.
CHALLENGES & FRUSTRATIONS
DOES this SOUND FAMILIAR?
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You moved abroad with excitement, ready for a new adventure. But now, you find yourself alone at home, wondering where the excitement went.
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You question your worth, your abilities, and your “weird, foreign” accent, fearing judgment and hiding your true self behind a mask.
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You’ve tried “getting out there,” attending social events, nodding along to local conversations, but you still feel out of place and drained after every interaction.
BUT GUESS WHAT...
YOU'RE NOT BROKEN
You’re just trying to fit into a mold that wasn’t made for you. That’s why fear of judgment shows up. You don’t want to stand out in the wrong way, so you hide your true self behind a mask, hoping no one notices how out of place you feel. But here’s the (tough) truth: that kind of hiding only makes the pain bigger. You long for connection, for someone to see you for who you really are.
Sounds painful? But, speaking from experience, nothing is more painful than staying stuck in a mental self-narrative that keeps you more isolated and unwell.
I promise you: once we start peeling back those layers of who you are NOT, you’ll attract the kind of friendships that fill that void and finally make you feel at home.
THE GOOD THINGS IS I'VE GOT 7-YEAR EXPERIENCE AND EASY-TO-USE TOOLS TO GUIDE YOU THERE WITHOUT YOU TRYING TO TRAVEL THIS UNKNOWN ROAD ALONE.
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INTRODUCING...
THE SOCIAL EXPAT
A 3-month program to give you practical, hands-on tools—a blend of mindset reframing + English language coaching to help you feel better, confident and grounded, not like a ghost in your (expat) life.…or like you’re wearing someone else’ clothes: ill-fitting and…uncomfortable.
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LET'S BREAK IT DOWN
HERE'S WHAT YOU'LL GET
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Weekly 1-on-1 coaching calls
Dive deep into your personal challenges and mindset blocks with a coach who gets it.
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Tailored English language support
Feel more comfortable expressing yourself in English, no matter your current level.
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Mindset reframing practice
Shift from fear and self-doubt to confidence and self-empowerment.
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Practical tools for social confidence
Learn how to navigate local customs, break through social anxiety, and start building a life you love abroad.
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HOW DOES THIS SOUND?
THE TRANSFORMATION YOU'LL EXPERIENCE
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Unshakable confidence
You’ll move through social situations with ease, no longer second-guessing every word or action.
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Overcome the fear of judgement
You'l let go of the constant fear of being judged and embrace your authentic self, knowing that perfection is not required.
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Emotional resilience
You'll build emotional tools to handle anxiety, impostor syndrome and feelings of inferiority, so they no longer control your life.
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Connecting and belonging
You'll finally feel at home in your new environment, having formed meaningful connections and created your own circle of trust and belonging.
HOW IT
WORKS
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STEP ONE
Fill in a 5-minute form so I can better assess your situation and see if you're the right fit.
STEP THREE
You will receive payment details.
STEP TWO
If you are the right fit for the program, you will receive an email with the link to book your clarity call where we'll work on your personalized roadmap.
STEP FOUR
Once the payment is done, we will start working together towards your transformation goals.
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A year from now you will have wished
you started today...
SO LET'S GET YOU STARTED!
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"I used to avoid conversations because I felt my English wasn’t ‘good enough.’ Aleksandra helped me shift my mindset, and now I actually enjoy speaking! Her unique blend of language coaching and emotional support changed everything for me. My social anxiety is finally under control, and I feel free to connect with others."
Nina, expat in Denmark
SELECT THE PLAN THAT WORKS FOR YOU
SKIP THE WAITLIST
Social Expat Program
2,000€Valid for 3 months- Consultation: 45 minutes
- Personalised roadmap to success
- 24 On-demand sessions over 12 weeks: 60-90 minutes each
- Full access to the Social Expat Community
- Full access to the Social Expat Journal
- Unlimited email support during the program
SPEAK UP AND FEEL FREE
WHY this PROGRAM WORKS?
Designed by an expat for expats
As a trailing partner, mom, and learner of three languages, I know firsthand the unique challenges expat women face. This program is tailored to help you overcome social anxiety in ways that resonate with your expat journey.
Actionable tools for real life
We don’t just talk about anxiety. You’ll get hands-on strategies, practical exercises, and ongoing support to make lasting changes in your social life.
High touch & personalised
You’ll receive individualized attention and a supportive, high-touch coaching experience. From weekly 1-on-1 sessions to custom-tailored strategies, every aspect is designed with you in mind.
Transformative journey
In 12 weeks, you’ll progress through structured sessions that build emotional resilience, develop communication skills, and guide you in embracing social mistakes as growth opportunities.
You're stronger than you think you are.
But, if you're anything like me, you need help to take your superpower to the next level.
I’m not here to tell you to “just get out there and meet people.” You’ve probably already tried that. Instead, I offer a roadmap to peeling back the layers of who you are not, allowing you to rediscover the empowered, confident woman you are beneath the surface.
Through 7 years of expat experience, I’ve developed proven tools and strategies to help you overcome feelings of isolation and self-doubt. Whether it’s through mindset work, practical English coaching, or personalized expat guidance, you’ll gain everything you need to stop feeling like a ghost in your own life and start thriving.
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YOU'RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE.
GET THIS AWESOME BONUS!
Grab your seat within 7 days from consultation and get this cool thing!
A detailed cultural immersion guide will be customized to your host country, helping you navigate local etiquette, social customs, and communication styles with ease.
This guide includes practical tips for integrating into your new community, such as how to strike up conversations, approach social events, and create meaningful connections.
ALL IT TAKES IS THE COURAGE TO TAKE THE FIRST STEP.
THIS PROGRAM HAS IT ALL
If you want to break free from fear, shame and solitude. If you want to live smarter, not harder. If you want your new life more meaningful.
Listen carefully.
We don't have time to waste on things that are not in our zone of genius. That's why we pay professionals to do things for us that we can't do ourselves. The same goes for building your new life as an expat. Why bang your head against the wall when it comes to finally breaking down one of the biggest barriers to your happy life when you can get clear steps from someone who has already been in your shoes and can take you where you want to see yourself.
I've invested:
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14 years of teaching English as a second language that led me to amazingly beautiful expat stories;
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1,800+ hours finding the best ways I can help my fellow expat women find their own paths;
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7 years drilling through the challenges on my personal expat journey through 3 countries and 3 languages;
...so you don't have to.
I still invest thousands of hours and dollars every year to learn more from people who can provide me with a perspective I don't have now and shorten my journey by saving my most valuable currency - TIME.
I also work with people who can point out the right time for the right steps. And who also encourage me to step on the gas when I would rather hit the brakes.
I suggest the same for you.
Stop postponing your freedom, waiting for a better moment, and believing in the excuses that fear and shame serve you. They do not!
The limits are only where you set them. You are your best investment. And the time to act is now.
Not because it objectively ever is, but because YOU CHOOSE IT TO BE!
If you want clarity, focus, and transformative experience toward expat life confidence and anxiety-free life, click the button below.
And remember!
I did it. So can you.
''I remember taking a firm step towards overcoming fear back in February – I decided to deepen my English knowledge with a teacher I met in Switzerland. Until then, speaking English caused me tremendous anxiety. Just the thought of speaking would block my mind, and it was often difficult to express myself as I wanted. But today, I can smile and say with relief – this fear has been conquered! I can confidently communicate and express myself. Thank you, @the.social.expat, for helping me.''
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ERNESTA
Expot in Amsterdam, Egosque coach
HI THERE!
I'm Aleksandra, your new get-a-grip friend.
I'm an expat mom, trailing partner, and certified English teacher who’s moved 4 times across 3 countries and 3 languages over the past 7 years. I’m also a certified NLP practitioner and expat coach, helping women like you come home to themselves—even if that home is halfway across the world.
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THIS IS YOUR OPPORTUNITY
TO STOP FEELING LIKE A STRANGER IN YOUR OWN LIFE
TO STRIP AWAY THE LAYERS OF EXPECTATIONS
TO SHED THE SKIN THAT DOESN'T FIT
TO UNDERSTAND WHO YOU WANT TO BECOME IN THIS NEW CHAPTER OF LIFE
This is for you if:
You need to make space for your true self to come through;
You are a woman who's recently moved abroad, but finds herself stuck in anxiety;
You are ready to shed the skin that doesn’t fit, strip away the layers of expectations, and rediscover who you want to become in this new chapter of life.
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It's probably not for you if:
You are unwilling to confront your social anxiety;
You are looking for a quick fix without putting in consistent effort;
You are not open to personal growth, mindset shifts and embracing vulnerability.
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SUCCESS STORIES
MEET THE SOCIAL EXPAT WOMEN
FREQUENTLY ASKED
QUESTIONS
I'VE BEEN ABROAD FOR OVER A YEAR, BUT STILL FEEL STUCK. IS THIS PROGRAM FOR ME?
Yes! Social Expat is designed for women who’ve been abroad for 6+ months, whether that’s 7 months or several years. If you’re struggling with feeling disconnected from yourself or your new environment, this program will help you regain your confidence and sense of belonging.
WHAT IF MY ENGLISH ISN"T GOOD ENOUGH?
That’s exactly what we’re here for! I provide English language support tailored to your needs so you can feel more comfortable and confident in every situation.
I'M INTROVERTED AND DON'T LIKE SOCIAL EVENTS. WILL THIS PROGRAM WORK FOR ME?
Absolutely! Social Expat isn’t about forcing you into situations that make you uncomfortable. It’s about helping you build authentic connections and confidence on your terms.
HOW IS SOCIAL EXPAT DIFFERENT FROM OTHER EXPAT COACHING PROGRAMS?
Unlike traditional programs that focus solely on logistics or surface-level advice, Social Expat takes a deeper approach by blending mindset reframing with practical English language coaching. It’s designed to help you rediscover your sense of self while giving you the tools to confidently navigate social situations abroad.
I STRUGGLE WITH SOCIAL ANXIETY. WILL THIS PROGRAM PUSH ME INTO UNCOMFORTABLE SITUATIONS?
No! Social Expat meets you where you are. If social anxiety is a challenge for you, we’ll work together to gently reframe your mindset, build your confidence, and create strategies that make social interactions feel more comfortable—without forcing you into high-stress environments.
I'M NERVOUS ABOUT OPENING UP ABOUT MY PERSONAL STRUGGLES. HOW DO I KNOW THIS WILL BE A SAFE SPACE?
I’ve been where you are, and I understand how vulnerable this process can feel. Social Expat is designed to be a safe, non-judgmental space where you can express yourself fully. Every conversation is confidential, and my priority is making sure you feel supported and understood throughout the journey.
I'M A MOM. WILL I HAVE TIME FOR THIS?
Absolutely! As a mom and trailing partner myself, I understand how overwhelming life abroad can be. The program is designed to be flexible around your schedule, with a realistic action plan that fits your life.
WHAT IF A MISS A SESSION?
Life can be unpredictable! If you miss a session, please notify me as soon as possible. We can reschedule your session to ensure you receive the full benefit of the program. However, sessions missed without prior notice may not be rescheduled.
HOW LONG WILL IT TAKE BEFORE I START SEEING RESULTS?
Many clients begin feeling a sense of relief and empowerment after just a few weeks. The full 3-month program is designed to provide sustainable, long-term growth, with each session building on the last to help you feel more confident and grounded over time.
WHAT IF I NEED MORE SUPPORT AFTER THE 12-WEEK PROGRAM ENDS?
You’ll have the option to continue with monthly check-ins or additional support sessions after the 12 weeks if you feel you need more guidance.
STILL ON THE FENCE?
Let's Do This.
I get it. Every dollar counts. And it seems like you'll have to work hard. It sounds painful. But, speaking from experience, nothing is more painful than staying stuck in a mental self-narrative that keeps you more isolated and unwell.
I promise you: once we start peeling back those layers of who you are not, you’ll start breathing again, knowing that you are enough just the way you are, you'll attract your kind of people and finally feel at home.